When I was young, my father, who always taught me how to be a true man, told me that it is essential to be tolerant in your life whatever happens.

　　在我年輕的時候，我父親總是教導(dǎo)我如何成為真正的男人，他說不管發(fā)生什么事情，寬容在你的一生中是很重要的。

　　And that remains the most valuable present he gave me, I think. To be tolerant, I need to keep calm when great trouble lies in front of me, however difficult it is to overcome it; To be tolerant, I need to resist the temptation of all kinds of the outside world, even if it is so attractive; To be torlerant, I need to pull myself(控制自己情緒) in times of extreme sorrows and joys, no matter how they affect me.

　　我覺得這是他給我最好的禮物。做到寬容，我需要在大麻煩擺在我面前而我也很難克服它時保持冷靜。做到寬容，我需要抵制外部世界各種各樣的誘惑，即使它很具有吸引力。做到寬容，我需要在悲痛和開心時控制我的情緒，不管它們對我影響有多大。