Most children have experienced such strange situation. When their parents meet some friends, they will be asked to show their talents in front of these adults. For girls, they will be asked to dance, while boys will need to play guitar or something else. The parents will be very proud if the kids perform well, but what they do is hurting the children’s feeling. It is the most awkward thing for children. They will feel like being a doll to make performance. Parents should stop seeking pride by such way. Giving some respect to children and parents will receive equal respect from children. The friend to friend relationship can be built.

　　大多數(shù)孩子都經(jīng)歷過(guò)這種奇怪的情況。當(dāng)自己父母和一些朋友見(jiàn)面時(shí)，他們就會(huì)被要求在這些大人面前展示自己的才華。女孩來(lái)跳舞，男孩子彈吉他或者其他才藝表演。如果孩子表現(xiàn)好，父母會(huì)非常自豪，但他們這樣做其實(shí)是在傷害孩子。這對(duì)于孩子來(lái)說(shuō)是最尷尬的事。他們就像娃娃一樣在表演。父母應(yīng)該停止通過(guò)這樣的方式來(lái)尋求自豪感。給孩子一些尊重，父母也會(huì)從孩子那里得到平等的尊重。像朋友間的關(guān)系才可以建立起來(lái)。