When I was very small, I always wanted to grow up soon, so that I can make money and make my own decision. My parents were in charge of my everything, so I thought the only way to get out of their supervision is to become an adult soon. But I was wrong. The sign of growing up is to take the responsibility of what you do instead of aging. Nowadays, many adults have been called Big Baby, which means they are old enough as an adult, but they can’t take charge of their life. Especially for the person who counts on parents so much. So I need to learn to be independent and solve the problem by myself. When my parents see my ability, they will be happy to let me go. I believe that every parent wants their kids to be strong.

　　在我很小的時候，我總是希望能快點長大，這樣我就可以賺錢，自己做決定。我的父母總是把我的一切都照料好，所以我認(rèn)為離開他們的照顧是我盡快成為成年人的唯一方法。但我錯了。成長的標(biāo)志是對自己所做的事負(fù)責(zé)而不是年齡的增長。如今，有很多成年人被稱為“巨嬰”，這意思是盡管他們已經(jīng)長大成人，但卻不能照料好自己的生活。尤其是那些對父母過度依賴的人。所以我需要學(xué)會獨立解決問題，當(dāng)我的父母看到我的能力后，他們就會很高興地讓我獨立。我相信每個父母都希望自己的孩子是堅強。