Once, I talked to the foreign people, he was staring at me all the time, which made me feel not comfortable, so I chose to avoid his eyes and kept a little distance from him. When I talked about this problem to my foreign teacher, she told me that it was natural for them to look at you during communication, which meant respect. While in China, people do the opposite thing. They try to avoid eye-contact, because it is not eased to look at each other. The different culture sometimes creates distance. The foreigners always feel strange when they look at Chinese people’s eyes and every time when they want to come closer to hear more clearly, Chinese people will walk away. So the more we learn about the culture, the more we know about the world.

　　有一次，我跟外國(guó)人交談，他一直盯著我，這讓我感到很不舒服，所以我選擇了避開(kāi)他的眼睛，和他保持一定的距離。當(dāng)我和外教談到這個(gè)問(wèn)題時(shí)，她告訴我，他們?cè)诮涣鲿r(shí)看著對(duì)方是很正常的，代表了尊重。而在中國(guó)卻是相反的，人們?cè)噲D避免目光接觸，因?yàn)榭粗鴮?duì)方會(huì)感到不自在。文化的差異有時(shí)會(huì)產(chǎn)生距離感。外國(guó)人總是感到奇怪，在他們看中國(guó)人的眼睛或者每次想接近一點(diǎn)以便聽(tīng)得更清楚時(shí)，中國(guó)人就會(huì)走開(kāi)。所以我們對(duì)文化了解得越多，對(duì)這個(gè)世界也了解越多。