爸爸，在我的心目中，您是一個(gè)不懂的愛(ài)，不會(huì)表達(dá)愛(ài)，尤其是不懂得愛(ài)女兒的人。在我的記憶中，您沒(méi)有送過(guò)我上下學(xué)，每天都是媽媽不辭辛苦的負(fù)責(zé)我上下學(xué)。在學(xué)校開(kāi)展家長(zhǎng)開(kāi)放日或家長(zhǎng)會(huì)里，一直都是媽媽的身影，您沒(méi)有出現(xiàn)過(guò)一次。在我每年的生日時(shí)，都是媽媽給我準(zhǔn)備禮物和生日蛋糕，而您只是輕描淡寫(xiě)的說(shuō)小孩過(guò)什么生日。當(dāng)我學(xué)習(xí)中遇到難題請(qǐng)您幫忙時(shí)，您只跟我解釋題目的意思，從來(lái)不跟我說(shuō)答案。
Dad, in my mind, you are a person who doesn't understand love and can't express love, especially for his daughter. In my memory, you did not send me up and down school, every day my mother took the trouble to be responsible for my up and down school. In the school's parent open day or parent meeting, it's always the mother's figure, you haven't appeared once. On my birthday every year, my mother prepares gifts and birthday cakes for me, and you just understate the birthday of the child. When I meet a problem in my study, please help me, you only explain the meaning of the problem to me, never tell me the answer.
我對(duì)您的做法很不理解，別人的爸爸把自己的孩子含在嘴里怕化了，捧在手里怕摔了，您對(duì)我卻毫不關(guān)心，對(duì)我只有嚴(yán)厲，叫我不管遇到什么難題都要自己想辦法解決。
I don't understand your practice very much. Other people's dads hold their children in their mouths for fear of melting and holding them in their hands for fear of falling. You don't care about me at all. You are only strict with me. You ask me to find a solution to any problem I encounter.
這幾天您不在家，我跟媽媽談心的時(shí)候，說(shuō)到了您對(duì)我的關(guān)心不夠。媽媽跟我解釋了您的良苦用心。說(shuō)您是想讓我從小磨煉吃苦耐勞的精神，自理自立的能力，對(duì)待學(xué)習(xí)的要有責(zé)任感，讓我學(xué)會(huì)自己的事情自己做，什么事不能依賴別人。
You are not at home these days. When I talked with my mother, I said that you didn't care enough for me. Mom explained your hard work to me. You said that you want me to cultivate the spirit of hard work and self-reliance from childhood. You should have a sense of responsibility for learning, and let me learn how to do things by myself and what can't depend on others.
爸爸，我想我們還有好多辦法進(jìn)行溝通，不要老是用您那種家長(zhǎng)式的方法來(lái)約束我。不過(guò)，通過(guò)媽媽把您對(duì)愛(ài)的一種方式的跟我這么解釋。現(xiàn)在我終于懂了，您不是不愛(ài)我，您給我的是一種特殊的愛(ài)。
Dad, I think we have many ways to communicate. Don't always use your paternalistic way to restrain me. However, through your mother to love a way to explain to me. Now I finally understand that you do not love me, you give me a special love.
