古往今來，挫折像一條尾巴跟著我們?nèi)祟?。從荊軻刺秦王時(shí)遇到挫折到鄧小平三起三落時(shí)遇到的挫折，從愛迪生發(fā)明電燈時(shí)遇到的挫折到愛因斯坦提出相對論時(shí)遇到的挫折，我不禁迷惑于挫折，思考起挫折來?，F(xiàn)寫《挫折四問》，算是我對挫折的思考。
Throughout the ages, setbacks follow us like a tail. From the setback of King Jingke's assassination to the setback of Deng Xiaoping's three ups and downs, from the setback of Edison's invention of the electric lamp to the setback of Einstein's theory of relativity, I can't help being confused by the setback and thinking about it. Now writing "four questions about setbacks" is my reflection on setbacks.
第一問：挫折是什么？
First question: what is frustration?
查閱《現(xiàn)代漢語詞典》，知道"挫折"的意思就是變相的失敗。但不同的是，挫折是弱者眼中的大山，是強(qiáng)者眼中的沙粒，是懦弱者逃避的理由，是堅(jiān)強(qiáng)奮斗者的階梯。挫折在不同人的眼中有不同含義。
Looking up the modern Chinese dictionary, we can see that "frustration" means failure in disguise. But the difference is that frustration is the mountain in the eyes of the weak, the sand in the eyes of the strong, the reason for the coward to escape, and the ladder for the strong fighter. Setbacks have different meanings in different people's eyes.
第二問：挫折真的存在嗎？
The second question: does frustration really exist?
挫折當(dāng)然存在。人越大好像越難以面對挫折，大人們說：小孩子哪里會(huì)知道挫折？其實(shí)不然，就像小孩子玩過家家一樣，挫折在小孩子的眼里是透明的。孩子們說：爸媽不給買玩具是挫折，打架回家再被打一頓是挫折。有時(shí)我會(huì)問自己：挫折是否真的存在？在經(jīng)歷了白天與黑夜，經(jīng)歷了花開花謝之后，我明白了挫折的存在。它存在于我考試的失利中，存在于父母的不理解中，存在于友誼的破裂中。
Setbacks certainly exist. The bigger a person is, the more difficult it seems to face setbacks. Adults say: where will children know about setbacks? In fact, it is not, just like children playing at home, frustration in the eyes of children is transparent. The children said: it's a setback that parents don't buy toys. It's a setback to be beaten again when they fight home. Sometimes I ask myself: do setbacks really exist? After the day and night, the flowers bloom and fade, I understand the existence of setbacks. It exists in the failure of my exam, in the incomprehension of my parents, in the rupture of my friendship.
第三問：挫折與成功的界限在哪？
The third question: where is the boundary between frustration and success?
挫折與成功只在一線之間。要不然愛因斯坦怎么會(huì)說：我喜歡挫折，它是我走向成功的路標(biāo)?？v觀古今名人或巨人，哪一位成功的背后不是挫折在作鋪墊？愛迪生經(jīng)歷挫折發(fā)明了電燈，居里夫人經(jīng)歷了一個(gè)又一個(gè)挫折才找到了鐳元素，他們之所以成功是因?yàn)樗麄兏矣诿鎸Υ煺?，敢于向挫折挑?zhàn)。
Frustration and success are only in the first line. How else would Einstein say: I like setbacks, it is my road to success. Looking at ancient and modern celebrities or giants, which one is not behind the success of setbacks in the foreshadowing? Edison experienced setbacks and invented electric light. Madame Curie experienced setbacks one after another before finding radium element. The reason why they succeed is that they dare to face setbacks and challenge them.
第四問：挫折給我什么啟示？
The fourth question: what does frustration give me?
讀了上面的材料，我認(rèn)為我對挫折有了新的理解和認(rèn)識(shí)，那就是：受挫折的過程往往就是獲得真知的過程。走過崎嶇小路，才能真正體味生活的歡樂；穿過茫茫迷霧，才能深切感受陽光的明媚。不經(jīng)風(fēng)雨，怎見彩虹；不吃一塹，難長一智!……
Reading the above materials, I think I have a new understanding and understanding of setbacks, that is: the process of frustration is often the process of getting real knowledge. Through the rugged path, we can truly appreciate the joy of life; through the vast fog, we can deeply feel the sunshine. Without wind and rain, how can we see a rainbow
屈原曾作《九問》，我今天寫的《挫折九問》為我的人生指明了方向。我明白了什么是挫折，我再也不會(huì)害怕挫折，我知道了挫折的真正內(nèi)涵--獲得真知。最后我還要說一句：道路是曲折的，但前途是光明的。
Qu Yuan once wrote "nine questions", and today I wrote "nine questions of setbacks" which pointed out the direction of my life. I have learned what setbacks are, and I will never be afraid of them again. I have learned the true meaning of setbacks - to get true knowledge. Finally, I would like to say that the road is tortuous, but the future is bright.
