走與停

Go and stop

劉禹錫說：“千淘萬路雖辛苦，吹盡狂沙始到金?！比欢F(xiàn)實生活中真是這樣的嗎？那可不一定，就算巨輪上的帆任憑它再頑強，再牢固也有被狂風襲卷的時候。人生亦如此，若沿著自己的路走下去，只能說明你的意志力比較頑強，并不代表你一定能成功。所以有時候選擇停止也是好的。

Liu Yuxi said: "thousands of taowan Road, although hard, blowing out the sand to the gold." But is it true in real life? That's not necessarily, even if the sails on the giant ship are tenacious and firm, they will be swept by the wind. The same is true of life. If you follow your own path, it only shows that your willpower is tenacious, which doesn't mean you will succeed. So sometimes it's good to stop.

《開心辭典》中曾有這樣一幕：一青年在答題臺上答題，他懷孕的妻子在觀眾席上靜靜地等待著他勝利的佳音。然而當他順利闖過三關(guān)時卻選擇放棄。這種情況是罕見的，因為在小丫的主持下選手對她的“繼續(xù)嗎”的回答總是肯定的，可那位青年人卻出乎所有人的預(yù)料，堅定地說出“停止”兩字。正當觀眾那些冷嘲熱諷朝他潑去時，卻被他在小丫面前的回答征服了。

"Happy Dictionary" once had such a scene: a young man is answering questions on the answering table, his pregnant wife is quietly waiting for the good news of his victory in the audience. However, he chose to give up when he successfully passed the three hurdles. This kind of situation is rare, because under the chairmanship of Xiaoya, the contestant's answer to her "continue?" is always positive, but the young man, contrary to everyone's expectation, firmly said the word "stop". Just as the audience's sarcasm poured on him, it was conquered by his answer in front of Xiaoya.

小丫問：“如果你的孩將來問你為何不勇往直前，你怎么回答？”“有些事情并不一定要到達終點，停止可能獲得更多?！薄澳侨绻愕暮⒆又豢剂?0分就不上進了，你怎么教育他？”“我會說：”你若盡了最大努力，那我不怪你。‘人生并不一定要走到最輝煌的頂峰，關(guān)鍵是要享受走的過程。“就是他的這兩次回答博得了熱烈的掌聲，得到了來自觀眾心靈最深處的敬佩。

"If your child asks you why you don't go forward in the future, what's your answer?" she asked "There are things that don't have to get to the end. Stopping can get more." "How can you educate your child if he doesn't make progress if he only scores 80?" "I will say," if you do your best, I don't blame you. "Life doesn't have to go to the most brilliant peak, the key is to enjoy the process. "It was these two answers that won warm applause and the deepest admiration from the audience.

倘若你爬山，累了就停下來，先享受一下千層綠浪的清幽，郁郁蔥蔥的野花野草，感受一下另類的幸福，再繼續(xù)攀登，那“會當凌絕頂，一覽眾山小”的感覺便油然而生了，那種豪情壯志也體會到了。但如果你累了還繼續(xù)攀登，那到達山頂就困難了，說不定還會因累而窒息。

If you climb the mountain and stop when you are tired, enjoy the quiet green waves, the lush wild flowers and grass, feel the alternative happiness, and then continue to climb, then the feeling of "will be Ling peerless, see all the small mountains" will be born spontaneously, and that kind of ambition will also be realized. But if you are tired and continue to climb, it will be difficult to reach the top of the mountain. Maybe you will be choked by fatigue.

所以，有時走走停停也是一種良策。即便有倒下的時候那也只是軀殼，只要堅持不讓意志倒下。因為意志倒下是最可怕的。

So, sometimes it's a good idea to stop and go. Even if there is a time when it is only a body, as long as we insist on not letting the will fall. Because the fall of will is the most terrible.

或走或停在于己，只要你把自己當作帆，那就依實力而行吧！畢竟過程才是最重要的。失敗時別忘了：帆也有倒下的時候，不過就是自己停在那兒歇了口氣罷了。等氣歇夠了再走也不遲?。≌f不定走得更快。

Or go or stop in yourself, as long as you regard yourself as a sail, it depends on your strength! After all, the process is the most important. Don't forget when you fail: the sails also fall, but you just stop there and have a rest. It's not too late to leave when you have enough breath! Maybe it's faster.

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